I have a dilemma

I've had a close female friend for the past 9 years and during this time I've learned a lot about men's issues and men's rights and also outside of our friendship I've had bad experiences with the other women in my life. The dilemma I have right now is that my friend has espoused feminist views and identifies as a feminist and even tho she has never said anything anti man towards me I feel like Everytime I bring up a topic regarding gender she doesnt really care what I have to say. I bring this here to this specific sub to ask if I should establish more boundaries regarding what I say about men's rights or don't bring it up at all or just go nuclear and end the friendship? I view them as a good friend but my eyes have been opened these past few years and I am disillusioned about a lot of things now and have started to question and reevaluate things. Any advice would be a great help

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Most of our problems are also cause of other man like this

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Just in from the UK: Men lose right to Prostate Cancer test. Cervical Screening & Breast Screening unaffected.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/08/14/men-lose-right-to-prostate-cancer-test/

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Victims With Responsibilities: Requiring Male
Victims Of Statutory Rape To Pay Child Support
With No Escape
https://lawpublications.barry.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1017&context=cflj

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Video Mocking the Attitude that Men Being Raped is Funny or Not Really Rape

OK, you really have to watch the ENTIRE 2 minute video, because until the end it pretends to agree with the idea that the rape of men is cool. I hate to give the end away like this, but if I didn't, most of you would probably miss the message.

https://youtu.be/Ikd0ZYQoDko?si=LDgRJbhOzTNjULrF



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When Women Fear All Men

Just watch the youtube short about a woman being afraid of being in the company of men

https://youtube.com/shorts/5Nn8RosICVY?si=bc-kKb429jRnloOR

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Parents who say that their son’s circumcision went well: read this post.

For those who say that “ my son’s circumcision went fine” please read this post.

I see many people on the Internet claiming that their children went through circumcision, healed well, and that they haven’t had any issues with it. From your perspective, this may seem true, but I want to challenge your assumption that everything went well with my story. Here is what happened to me.

Like most Americans born in the 20th century, I was circumcised at birth. My parents thought it was just something you had to do, and they assumed it went well. I healed well, lived in normal childhood and didn’t have many medical complications from it as a kid, other than some slight irritation around my urethra that I had to go to the doctor for, which, ironically, was caused by rubbing against my clothing, which would’ve been prevented with a foreskin. But it wasn’t until puberty that the problems really started to arise.

Around the time I started getting erections, they felt very tight and painful, and would curve to the side. I had no idea this wasn’t normal, I didn’t know what caused it. I also noticed the most sensitive part of my penis was the frenulum. But once I researched the anatomy of the penis, I realize they had severed it completely from the glands, and it was hanging down. I had no idea it was supposed to be attached to the head. This is a very obvious surgical complication, and if it were done to an adult, it would’ve been grounds for a lawsuit.

I began to develop penoscrotal webbing throughout my teenage years, as too much skin had been removed to allow for the scrotum to stay in place during erections. This makes erections and sex very uncomfortable.

Once I started researching the potential complications from circumcision, all these things made sense. The boy who’s Parents thought was “fine“ after the surgery suffered numerous complications that made erections and sex painful, uncomfortable, or downright weird. The Frenulum being severed means that it moves back and forth during sex, which can be quite uncomfortable for me. Penoscrotal webbing makes penetration more difficult, and feels awkward for female partners as well.

Another thing I noticed, the first time I had sex, I basically felt numb. I could feel almost no pleasure at all, and it stayed this way for the first year or so of my intimate life. It wasn’t until I started progressing in foreskin restoration and retaining that sex begin to become more pleasurable.

What is More, my parents were under the illusion that I was OK, and that I was fine with their decision, until I was 27 years old and finally had the courage to tell them. I can only imagine how many men in America have similar problems to me and either don’t know what caused them, or do you know and haven’t told their parents.

So I want to challenge Parents out there Who say that their son’s circumcision went well. You honestly don’t know if it did, particularly if they haven’t hit puberty yet where problems like these can arise, and there’s a strong likelihood that if your son has experienced these complications, he either doesn’t know what caused them or doesn’t want to tell you because it’s too awkward, or he’s too traumatized. He might not want to tell you that the skin on the underside of his shaft has formed a web. He might not want to tell you that they severed his frenulum and the friction causes pain during sex. He might not want to tell you that his erections are curved to the side and painful. These would be pretty awkward conversations that it takes a lot of courage to muster up, especially if he is young. Just some food for thought. The surgery that “went well” might not have, and there’s absolutely no way for you to know it. So stop making this argument please

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Are there really idiots defending the indefensible?

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Drink spiking is largely an urban legend

80 to 90% of claimed cases result in negative blood tests for substances other than alcohol, and these are the people that go through the formal route of police reports and hospital attendance:

https://www.perplexity.ai/search/a7849783-2422-4dfd-b361-4c94c2b7d75f

Perplexity list the sources.



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Voice actor has fishy accusations thrown at him
https://www.tumblr.com/lintwriting/746824861534552064/via-%E9%98%BF%E9%98%AE-woonton-on-twitter-the-poster-also

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Sabrina Carpenter leading the charge in misandry
https://youtu.be/kLbn61Z4LDI?si=pxfAcagXoagyRSiN

https://redd.it/1vq2p05
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I was accused of stalking/following a girl at university for almost 3 years — I need an outside perspective

I recently finished my degree, but there is one situation from university that I still have trouble making sense of. I'm not looking for validation or for people to automatically take my side. I genuinely want an outside perspective on whether I handled this badly and what I could have done differently.

There was a girl at my university, L. We had one class together during first year, but otherwise we were in completely different courses. Our campus is relatively small roughly 4 km for one lap. So there are many shared places like cafeterias, academic buildings, walkways, jogging areas and university programmes.

The problem was that we kept ending up in the same places. I'd sometimes leave my accommodation and encounter her, then see her around other buildings, the cafeteria, jogging areas or events that I happened to attend. My friends even noticed how often it happened. They would sometimes joke about it because whenever I went somewhere with them, she somehow seemed to be there too.

I genuinely wasn't stalking or deliberately following her. I didn't know her timetable, subjects, classrooms or daily routine. We were in different courses and I didn't even know the schedules of many people in my own course.

But I completely understand why this could have looked suspicious from her perspective. If you're a woman and you repeatedly see the same man around campus, especially someone you already feel uncomfortable around, I can understand why you might start thinking he's deliberately following you. I don't actually blame her for feeling uncomfortable or afraid.

I'm also a very insecure person about my appearance. I'm not conventionally attractive, and I've been mocked about my face before. I often walked alone to class and around campus. Because of that, I sometimes wondered whether, from her perspective, seeing the same man who looked like me repeatedly appearing around campus could have felt more intimidating than I realized. I'm not saying my appearance excuses anything or that she should be blamed for it. I'm just explaining why I can understand her perspective even though I know my own intentions weren't malicious.

Eventually, L told me that she didn't want to see my face anymore and that seeing me could ruin her entire day. She also apparently considered me a threat and believed I was following her. That was extremely difficult for me because I knew I wasn't deliberately following her.

After that, I tried very hard to avoid her. I changed my routes, changed the times I went places and would sometimes leave an area if I noticed her. There was one occasion where I went along my normal route toward my class building and she happened to be behind me. The following week, I deliberately went about an hour earlier because I wanted to avoid crossing paths with her. She happened to be there around that time too.

Things like this kept happening. I'd change my routine, but we would still occasionally cross paths. At some point I felt like there was no realistic way to guarantee that two students at the same university would never encounter each other.

There were also accusations that I had recorded her. At one university concert, I was recording the event itself, but one of her friends accused me of recording L. I showed them the actual video to demonstrate what I was recording, but they accused me of editing the video. I found that extremely frustrating because I felt like I couldn't prove my intention even after showing the footage.

Eventually the situation became serious enough that L told me she had reported me to the police. When the police check my phone, tablet, laptop. They found nothing. Also I try to talk to L to let her see inside my phone. But she hesitated

I then had to deal with university authorities and higher-ups and explain my side of everything. I explained that we were in different courses, that I didn't know her schedule, that I wasn't deliberately following her, and that I had already

been changing my routines to avoid her.

I also told them about the recording incidents and how uncomfortable I had become with the situation. Unfortunately, I felt that my concerns weren't taken particularly seriously. The main advice was essentially that I should stay away from her and not follow her. They even joked and said about suicide jokes to me. I understood that, and I continued trying to give her space.

The whole thing was extremely humiliating. I became the clown that being known around campus as "the guy who follows her." I became hyper-aware of people looking at me and started wondering whether everyone already thought I was a creep. When I eat alone at cafeteria, girls that sit at table in front of me will get up and sit at different table. As if they're afraid of me.

I also became increasingly ashamed of my appearance. I already had insecurities about my face, but being perceived as threatening or creepy made those insecurities much worse. I started wondering whether people looked at me and immediately assumed something bad about me. I know that's probably not a healthy way to think, but that's genuinely how much the situation affected me.

I don't hate L, and I don't want to portray her as some horrible person. I can understand why she would want help if she genuinely believed she was being followed. At the same time, I genuinely know that I wasn't deliberately stalking her. That's the part I still struggle to reconcile.

From her perspective, she repeatedly saw the same person around campus.

From my perspective, I repeatedly encountered someone I was actively trying to avoid.

I eventually apologized to her because I didn't want to finish university knowing that I might have made someone feel uncomfortable or threatened. I apologized for anything I may have done that made her feel that way.

I wasn't asking for forgiveness or another chance. I simply wanted to acknowledge her feelings and leave university without feeling that I had ignored something I might have done wrong.

Now that my degree is over, I want to stop everything. I don't want to contact her again, search for her, explain myself anymore, or try to change her opinion of me. If I ever encounter her again, I intend to respect her space and simply walk away.

But I still don't know how I should understand the whole situation.

If you were in my position, what would you have done? Would you have continued living normally and accepted that you might occasionally cross paths, or would you have kept changing your routines? Should I have reported the recording accusations earlier? Once she reported me to the police and university authorities, was there anything else I realistically could have done?

And honestly, based on what I've described, is there something I did that could reasonably have made me appear like I was following her, even if that was never my intention?

I just want an outside perspective on what happened, what I should have done differently, and how I should move forward from it now that university is over.

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Nobody Wants to Make the First Move Anymore
https://www.playboy.com/read/sex-relationships/nobody-wants-to-make-the-first-move-anymore

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Chinese woman funds her own TV series to star in, requests 60 kissing scenes with male lead
https://www.dexerto.com/entertainment/chinese-woman-funds-her-own-tv-series-to-star-in-requests-60-kissing-scenes-with-male-lead-3398146/

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