Never ask a girl these 3 questions: (EXPLANATIONS)

1. Do you love me?

WHY: You'd know if she loves you or not from her actions and behaviors. You don't need her to tell you. And don't trust a woman's words, trust her actions. You don't even need her love to start with. Is she respecting you and your boundaries? Does she go out of her way to be with you? That's your answer.

2. Who am I to you / what are we?

WHY: If it's not clearly defined, it doesn't exist. Yet, you don't need to define it. If she is not giving you the vibe you need, she's most likely not interested. She should be the one asking this because you've made her crave being with you without defining what you both have, not you.

3. Do you have a boyfriend?

WHY: If she's talking to you, spending quality time, checking up, calling first... You're her boyfriend. Forget if she has one or not. If she has a boyfriend she respects and adores, she won't entertain your advances. She's not confused. She's not lying. Being a boyfriend is more about what you do together than the "name tag". Choosing you is a sign she has none or you're the one.

How to be Mentally Strong

1. Don’t look to the world to give you an identity.

2. Don’t look to your family and friends for approval.

3. Set your own goals and believe in yourself.

4. Expect things to take time.

5. Expect to meet with setbacks.

6. Expect people to put you down, and for some to walk away.

7. Don’t be swayed by pressure from others.

8. Don’t resent others’ gifts and successes.

9. Accept that some things cannot be controlled.

10. Believe that you will make it one day.

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– LIFE GOES ON: KEEP MOVING FORWARD –

Today, I want to speak to those walking through disappointment, loss, or transition.
Here’s the naked truth: life goes on.

It doesn’t stop for our pain, our confusion, or even our grief.
Life keeps moving, and by God’s grace, so must you.

Don’t let hard times stop you from living.
We’ve all had seasons where life hits hard.
A job falls apart.
A relationship breaks down.
Finances tighten.
Hope feels far away.

And if we’re not careful, we allow those moments to paralyze us.
We shrink. We stall. We stop dreaming.
But pain is not a reason to shut down.
Your calling doesn’t pause because things are painful.
You were created to live, not just survive.
To flourish, even in the fire.

Life goes on even when people leave.
Some of our greatest pain comes from those who walk away.
A breakup.
A friendship ends.
A loved one transitions.
And it leaves a hole in your heart.

You wonder, “How do I go on from here?”
It hurts. But life goes on.
Kings have fallen. Leaders have changed. Loved ones have passed.
And the world kept turning.

Even when life changes, God remains.
And He will help you move forward.

Your story isn’t over.
Just because you’re in a painful chapter doesn’t mean the book is finished.

The Bible is full of people whose lives seemed over until God stepped in.
Joseph was betrayed and forgotten.
David was hunted before he ever wore the crown.
Jesus was crucified before He was resurrected.

If you’re still breathing, there’s more ahead.
Keep moving forward.

That’s what God is calling you to do.
Not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.
Forget the former things.
Don’t dwell on the past.
God is doing a new thing.

You can’t move forward if you’re still stuck in what used to be.
Let it go.
You can grow. You can rise.

Life goes on, and so should you.

Don’t let your past paralyze your progress.
Don’t let your pain cancel your purpose.
Don’t let your setback stop your movement.

God is still moving.
So should you.

ACTIVATION PRAYER
Lord, thank You for reminding me that life goes on.
Help me rise above my challenges and keep moving forward.
Heal my broken heart, renew my hope, and strengthen my faith.
Help me embrace every season with courage and confidence, knowing You are leading me into my best days.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 — “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.”
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Keep Your Personal Life Private.

1. Don't advertise your happy marriage on social media

2. Don't advertise your kids achievements on Social media

3. Don't advertise your expensive buys on social media Reality is...

1. Not everyone is going to be happy for you

2. Most of the "Nice" comments you get are just fake

3. You will only attract the evil eye on you and your family

4. You are attracting jealous people in your life

5. You don't know who is saving your pictures and checking your updates

6. You really need to stop this because it may ruin your life, family, marriage and career.

Social Media is the devils eyes, ears and mouth, don't fall in to the devils trap. Let your private life remain private.

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When couples argue, the real battle is rarely about who’s “right.” It’s usually about two people trying to be heard, seen, and understood.

A marriage grows stronger the moment both partners stop competing and start connecting.

Not every disagreement needs a winner sometimes the real victory is creating a safe space where both hearts can speak without fear, shame, or defensiveness.

When you choose understanding over ego…

When you choose empathy over being “right”…

When you choose peace over point-scoring…
Your relationship shifts from survival mode to growth mode.

Healthy marriages aren’t built on perfect communication; they’re built on intentional listening.

Take a breath. Pause before reacting. Ask questions. Clarify feelings. Remember you’re on the same team, not opponents in a boxing ring.

Growth starts the day you stop trying to win the argument and start trying to win each other’s hearts again.

You do NOT need a job, because you already have "work".

If you or anyone is looking for a job, you or that person is unfortunately missing the mark.

Why should you be looking for a job, when you already have a WORK to do on earth?

You are over-complicating stuff and that is the issue. You think you need money, and money is from a job. WRONG!

Calm down. I'll explain.

You need to discover your work here on earth, and be VERY FOCUSED and EXTREMELY GOOD at it. It doesn't matter if you're a soccer player, pianist or scientist.

You need to discover that is the exact thing you want to do. Then go all in on it. It doesn't matter where you are in the world, you will be found.You will attract customers. People will find and come to you.

You can never be providing something that solves problems, makes others lives easy and still go hungry or broke. The Universe needs you to survive to help others.

What makes us broke is because we are always searching for money (the byproduct).

I met a man who has been selling cement for 40 years. I thought to myself "Wow, such a boring work. I can never imagine myself doing that".

Well, that's me, because that's not my work. But for him, he enjoys his work and is very passionate about it. Guess what, he feeds two wives and 6 children from the cement business.

He doesn't have any problems doing only that till he dies. Everyone in the neighborhood knows that, "if it's cement, Mr "X" is the best guy to talk to." And you won't see his importance until you need to build a house.

He has discovered what he wants to do, and is doing it. He is not looking forward to an MBA or PHD. Why will he need one?

But you? You think your life will be easy when you finally get "that thing". And you obviously need money to get it. So, even if your job is killing you, and you hate it so much, you'd do everything to get the money.

So let me ask you:
Are you fulfilled? Are you happy? Do you really need that job?

If you're too "gentle" and too "humble", stay away from business and women.

Women say they want "gentle men", yet they are the same people they cheat on the most.

Business says, "humility wins", yet it rewards those who are the loudest and draw most attention.

Here is the thing: there is a very thin line between humility and weakness. Many people don't even see the difference.

So, you may be taken advantage of, many times if you're too gentle or too humble.

Give people the respect and gentleness they deserve because they are humans, but do not fail to exercise your boundaries and hold onto your values when necessary.

honestly, the project is actually growing pretty well behind the scenes. Feels slow from the outside, but they’ve been quietly building the whole time.

You can be rich (relatively) as a professional from your career (if you're lucky).

But there's only ONE true way to be wealthy, which is OWNERSHIP!

To be wealthy, you MUST own something beyond cash or a "safe" job. Something that has a huge value which keeps increasing as time passes.

Few of such thingss are:
1. Shares in a valuable company
2. Bonds
3. Precious metals/natural resources (e.g., Gold)
4. Real estate (e.g., Land)
5. Copyrights / Patents (to a creative work or invention)
6. Cryptocurrency (but with caution).

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Which of them you go into depends on age, experience, risk tolerance, source of income, and financial goals.

Which of the above do you currently own?

A job is less risky than starting a business. A girlfriend is less risky than marriage.

But in the long term, starting a business and marrying are FAR REWARDING.

The reward is in two folds:
1. Compound Interest
2. Personal long term transformation

A job that pays you $5,000/month for 2 years is $120,000 total earnings. That looks huge to many people until you deduct taxes, expenses, etc.

Starting a business with $0, starving & sacrificing for 2 years to build a $1 million company is not only rewarding but actually possible.

On marriage, spending $20,000 on a marriage ceremony and $1000 a month to keep your home seems expensive untill you have three girlfriends who wont commit fully to you but cost you $2000 each to "keep".

The transformation side is real too. Nothing can beat what you become from starting a business from nothing to $1MM valued company. It transforms you internally. Being called up at emergencies to handle wife or children "issues" gives you some experience a single man won't have.

So why don't people start businesses or marry despite all the "goodies" attached to either choice?

The simple answer is FEAR.

You're either in the THINKER mode or DOER mode at a time.

You don't "do" when you're thinking. You don't "think" when you're doing.

If you spend more time "thinking", you'd do very little, and still feel stressed.

If you spend more time "doing", you'd think very little.

The idea is to think more BEFORE starting something, and very less when you start doing.

Once you start "doing", you have to do so much and so hard that you don't have to "think" again to do.

Your mind, body and soul must be on "autopilot".

No "whats", "whos", "wheres", "whens" or "hows" when you're doing.

And when you're playing against experienced "vampires" and "whales", they'd "eat you up" before your last thinking is complete.

Very few will get this.

It’s not fun, not easy.
And worst of all?
It’s so boring.

I mean getting up everyday,
same time, sleeping same time,
and repeating cycles.

Over and over.

That’s why there is such a low
percentage of succesful people.

No one is willing to do the work.

Even tho it’s boring at first.
If you just LEARN TO DELAY
GRATIFICATION, your set.

Learn to delay rewards,
and you will be succesful.

You got this bro. You vs you.

~G.