I need to break up but I’m physically sick from the thought of hurting her
I’m a 31-year-old guy and I’m currently dating a girl with whom I don’t see a long-term future. We started seeing each other about 8 months ago. In the beginning it was very casual — neither of us was putting much thought into it. It had that “situationship” vibe.
As time went by, she started becoming more attached and making more plans together. That’s when it became clear she wasn’t looking for something casual anymore. She eventually told me she loves me.
Honestly, I’ve never been in a situation like this before. I genuinely care about her as a person, I enjoy spending time with her, but I just can’t see a future together. In the past, whenever I had to break up with someone, there was always a clear reason that pushed me to do it.
This time the problem is… the idea of hurting her makes me feel physically sick. My stomach tightens, I get extremely anxious, and I literally feel like I’m going to throw up when I think about her crying because of me.
I know the “right” thing is to be strong, talk to her in person, and be honest. But I feel completely overwhelmed by my emotions. The thought of causing her pain is making me spiral into this horrible self-loathing. I don’t understand how I ended up being like this — for other people it doesn’t seem to be this difficult.
How do I handle this without breaking down myself? How do people deal with the guilt of hurting someone they care about, even if they know the relationship isn’t right?
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