When a woman monitors her partner’s social media activity, scrutinizing likes, following, looking for patterns, or when she expresses discomfort with her partner’s female friendships, or when she feels threatened by her partner following models or influencers, or when she uses withdrawal, silence, or provocation to test loyalty or when sheexits a relationship after consuming endless content insisting “if he wanted to, he would.” This vigilance is dignified as intuition, boundary-setting, self-respect, having standards, departure is celebrated as growth.
this is something i’ve been talking about for years with my friends
social media is fracturing relationships
https://open.substack.com/pub/shedrinkswater/p/instagram-is-training-you-to-leave
Substack
Instagram is training you to leave people who love you
How does the lack of Cognitive Security affects relationships?
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humblespace
spent the last 4h claude-ing my new mini project i'm trying to build a personal book bank! turns out after all my efforts in keying books & reviews, the website does not reflect whatever i've done on another person's device... part of the process innit
it is done! much thanks to Nouv for inspiring me to start on this project
it is a book collection of the books i’ve read in life, similar to the reviews i’ve been doing here
included some stats to track my reading habit, search features to recommend books to people easily, and quotes i liked
everything took about ~2 weeks because i faced a lot of technical difficulties at the start learning to claude + claude usage limitations on top of busy schedule
will continue to iterate on it and add books as i go, but here it is!
looking forward to starting my next claude side project
humblespace.xyz
(all feedback welcome)
it is a book collection of the books i’ve read in life, similar to the reviews i’ve been doing here
included some stats to track my reading habit, search features to recommend books to people easily, and quotes i liked
everything took about ~2 weeks because i faced a lot of technical difficulties at the start learning to claude + claude usage limitations on top of busy schedule
will continue to iterate on it and add books as i go, but here it is!
looking forward to starting my next claude side project
humblespace.xyz
(all feedback welcome)
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humblespace
it is done! much thanks to Nouv for inspiring me to start on this project it is a book collection of the books i’ve read in life, similar to the reviews i’ve been doing here included some stats to track my reading habit, search features to recommend books…
added a "Recommend me!" page, where you can suggest a book into my reading list
sharing in this tg is fine as well :-)
https://humblespace.xyz/to-read
sharing in this tg is fine as well :-)
https://humblespace.xyz/to-read
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you should have ~50% of your time completely unallocated to just think + be
i am a believer of this too, maybe the % can be a little bit more flexible
https://x.com/signulll/status/2020218392905408555?s=20
i am a believer of this too, maybe the % can be a little bit more flexible
https://x.com/signulll/status/2020218392905408555?s=20
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i really like this conversation prompt
https://x.com/Daryllautk/status/2020667088470438188?s=20
I like to ask people about their pivotal moments - their plot lines, their character arcs - when I meet them.
https://x.com/Daryllautk/status/2020667088470438188?s=20
X (formerly Twitter)
Daryl Lau (@Daryllautk) on X
If you applied the same trading philosophy to your life, you could exponentially change it.
I like to ask people about their pivotal moments - their plot lines, their character arcs - when I meet them.
Most people can't name one in the last 5 years.
VCs…
I like to ask people about their pivotal moments - their plot lines, their character arcs - when I meet them.
Most people can't name one in the last 5 years.
VCs…
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[BR]
This is Marketing by Seth Godin
i blinked this on Blinkist over a night walk. did not find anything profound, but maybe i'm not ready for the book yet.
main takeaways:
• identifying underlying needs and desires
• look for adopters, not adapters
• align with your tribe's worldview, sell your vision
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This is Marketing by Seth Godin
i blinked this on Blinkist over a night walk. did not find anything profound, but maybe i'm not ready for the book yet.
main takeaways:
• identifying underlying needs and desires
• look for adopters, not adapters
• align with your tribe's worldview, sell your vision
3/5
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Sonder
noun.
The profound feeling of realizing that everyone, including strangers passing in the street, has a life as vivid and complex as one's own, which they are constantly living despite one's personal lack of awareness of it.
noun.
The profound feeling of realizing that everyone, including strangers passing in the street, has a life as vivid and complex as one's own, which they are constantly living despite one's personal lack of awareness of it.
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Etterath
noun.
The feeling of emptiness after a long and arduous process is finally complete.
noun.
The feeling of emptiness after a long and arduous process is finally complete.
Dès vu
noun.
The awareness that the current moment being experienced will become a, or is already, a memory.
noun.
The awareness that the current moment being experienced will become a, or is already, a memory.
humblespace
Dès vu noun. The awareness that the current moment being experienced will become a, or is already, a memory.
personally feel this feeling too often, especially when i'm having a good time overseas or with company, which then makes me sad..
this too shall pass
this too shall pass