but the acceleration is speeding up in a *very* tangible way. not enough people read “machines of loving grace” and took it seriously. it’s all happening.

it gets even weirder when you consider that the average person has absolutely no clue that any of this is happening. that part weirds me out. it all sounds so schizo even though it’s obviously not.

sometimes i wish i was one of those blissfully ignorant normies haha. but it’s all just too fun. wouldn’t change a thing tbh.

When a woman monitors her partner’s social media activity, scrutinizing likes, following, looking for patterns, or when she expresses discomfort with her partner’s female friendships, or when she feels threatened by her partner following models or influencers, or when she uses withdrawal, silence, or provocation to test loyalty or when sheexits a relationship after consuming endless content insisting “if he wanted to, he would.” This vigilance is dignified as intuition, boundary-setting, self-respect, having standards, departure is celebrated as growth.

I like to ask people about their pivotal moments - their plot lines, their character arcs - when I meet them.