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粥店横幅的事儿，评论大概三种：
一类是指责行为本身缺乏人性；
一类小声附和，觉得外国坏事做尽凭啥不能恶毒祝福；
一类觉得丢人。
“丢人丢到国外去”其实占了特别大一部分，这里反应了国内的民众心理，潜意识里是认同自己被其他群体捆绑的。所以当群体的个别行为是一件被赞扬的好事时，乐于跟着沾光，充满自豪。但倘若群体中出了坏事，好面子的本能再怎么抗拒，话语间仍然还是默认了自己被从属于看不见的集体。
我觉得吧，这背后至关重要的问题倒不纯粹是自卑导致的玻璃心，而是社会氛围只有唯一的解释权，它本身不太容纳分歧。频繁的网络骂战那种压根也算不上什么分歧，后者最终是为了压倒性的覆盖另一种声音。分歧被压制，一旦什么声音传出来，自己总得被裹挟进去。
在一个多元程度足够高的社会里，无论是政治还是文化，最大的特点是无法达成长久共识。缺点在于噪声大，当需要短暂妥协完成某项目标时，要耗费更高的成本。而优点在于彼此总能互相容纳、制衡和纠正。在这样的环境下，人们不太容易因为某一个人或一群人的行为，带入到自己，甚至上升到国家荣誉感，批判起社会中的问题和矛盾的心理负担也就小了很多。例如，政治光谱丰富的环境下，各类立场能保存自己的发言空间。普通人看新闻，在选择发声媒体的时候就有一个模糊的预判，至于主持人或明星、受访者说了什么惊骇言论，观众能保持最低限度的常识，即他的言行首先代表自己。为自己的言行负责也就变成了默契。
长期处于分歧环境，体验分歧的过程，会消解很多“不同意见”的冒犯感，这种环境下同时能激发教育和文学艺术作品对内容与类型的差异化涉猎，最终，政治、社会生活互相哺育，生活方式多样，反映在人格上也就不太回避暴露缺点，不会特别脆弱，幽默感也来得自然些。所以，“坦率”这种国民性，塑造起来其实是个巨大的工程，纯靠基因天赋是立不住多久的。Forwarded from Deleted Account
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158 How can something be so nice?
178 Yet so shocking, yet so nice.
321 How can something be so new?
403 Yet so known but yet so new?
466 Ohh, one two, three, the time has gone.
494 Problematic things undone.
585 How an something be so cruel?
640 Yet so warm but yet so cruel?
992 Try to find from a different sight,
1053 Get to choose where to look back,
1120 Resolve what others can't do for now...
1324 What a beautiful way to fix all wrong things.
1383 Evolve future generations of work teams.
1562 But tell me why's that fear of yours,
1633 'Cause you know it is going to work... (keep it up)
1757 Let's start from now, stay tuned, you're half way through!
1834 Break it, crash it, take it farther
1956 Making something even smarter.
1993 Do it, start it, make it happen,
2079 Stab in statements screaming louder.
2119 How can something be so nice?
2207 Yet so shocking, yet so nice.
2261 How can something be so new?
2334 Yet so known but yet...
2424 IT'S SOMETHING NEW
2650 IT'S SOMETHING NEW
178 Yet so shocking, yet so nice.
321 How can something be so new?
403 Yet so known but yet so new?
466 Ohh, one two, three, the time has gone.
494 Problematic things undone.
585 How an something be so cruel?
640 Yet so warm but yet so cruel?
992 Try to find from a different sight,
1053 Get to choose where to look back,
1120 Resolve what others can't do for now...
1324 What a beautiful way to fix all wrong things.
1383 Evolve future generations of work teams.
1562 But tell me why's that fear of yours,
1633 'Cause you know it is going to work... (keep it up)
1757 Let's start from now, stay tuned, you're half way through!
1834 Break it, crash it, take it farther
1956 Making something even smarter.
1993 Do it, start it, make it happen,
2079 Stab in statements screaming louder.
2119 How can something be so nice?
2207 Yet so shocking, yet so nice.
2261 How can something be so new?
2334 Yet so known but yet...
2424 IT'S SOMETHING NEW
2650 IT'S SOMETHING NEW
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https://dungeon-lab.com/e-stim-unit.html 卧槽可以App编程的estim device 好奇是电荷泵还是电流源 #NSFW
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频道主的人间惨剧：在香港买了个手机，先是商家不发货拖了一个月，拖到疫情变严重香港封关才送到转运公司，转运公司因为封关了不发货，淘宝代提货也提不出来，商家那边还不支持退货。可怜的我只能把手机放在仓库以每天10元的价格延长托管，大写的惨字，钱包大喷发……