If you have not succeeded, take steps to ensure your well-being. Try to be mindful of the other parties well-being in doing so if you and possibly your trusted contacts believe it is the right thing to do. If you need to ghost someone to keep your mental health in check, by all means, do it - you owe nobody selfdestruction for their benefit. Ever. Respect your needs if others won't.

Communication is hard. Cutting contact also is. But if those willing to put effort in do so we can come a long way.

This does explicitly exclude anyone who hatefully discriminates against you for things you cannot change no matter what. Some people cannot be argued with, should not be argued with, are not worth your time and energy.

Never ever tell someone they need to listen to someone denying their right to exist or their humanity for external qualities or something some piece of paper claims about them. You do not decide on boundaries of others.

This got long, thanks for reading it all if you did, it means a lot to me.

End CN mental health

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Final doot results.

Due to being in burnout I am going to delete some things without further comment. This is just a heads-up, not an apology. I am not going to engage in discussions I think are started in bad faith or will not have any positive value.

Gosh that is really such a freeing decision.

Un molt bon dia de Sant Jordi a tothom! 📖🌹🐉

A DIY project of mine seemingly succeeded! Instead of throwing out my 180cm by 200cm bed and getting a 140cm by 200cm one I have gone through the process of shortening it and drilling new holes and all... It is not perfect, but it's very in kine with rather repairing than throwing something out so I am proud of myself.

Drink some water.

Yes you, right now.

Many, if not most of the most trustworthy people I know have pretty severe trauma and personality or identity disorders and other mental health issues. The most abusive people we've met were NTs who were full of themselves with a superiority complex from being "normal"

They just think they're normal, but you never know what underlying issues they have, remember that we live in a deeply deeply broken world and I'm pretty sure that the majority of people have some mental issues.

Normal is a made up societal concept anyway. Full agree. Most are just unaware of it and that is what makes it dangerous, these are unmanaged problems - yet they count as NT since they have no diagnosis and often, due to denial, are not interested in it anyway. Or due to internalized ableism and refusal to be one of "those". And so they remain untreated, unmonitored and their actions without proper reaction or consequence.

stealing stolen memes is my passion