Children only add to the love between a man and woman. Add to your own, compound upon it, watch it grow. 🤍

Churches in the center of the town.

Cemeteries close by to remember the past;

Homes with unique builds and character;

Fields and trees are the rule, not the exception;

Local economies with local food that support local populace.

A nice place to live in.

“Give me just one generation of good Christian mothers, and I will change the world.”

~ St. John Chrysostom

We must encourage and build a society that cultivates and praises physical activity.

Self-portrait with Her Daughter, Julie by Élisabeth Louise Vigée Le Brun 1786

Motherhood is a blessing.

Red Flags concerning a spouse:

Aversion to Jesus.
Lack of prayer.
Skimpy or unbecoming clothing.
Dyed hair.
Hates or has a dislike for children.
Continual sexual references in everyday speech.
Talking like a man.
Using vulgarity.
Body piercings. (One on the ear maximum. Nose rings are a bolt to the door.)
Unrepentant of sexual past (if applicable.)
Argumentive, obedience becomes an obstacle.
Worships demons. (Withcraft, Wicca, etc.)
Cannot endure sufferings, focuses on temporal things.
Feminist, or a "Christian feminist."
Wishes for a full time career, even after you've married.
Hides things from you or lies habitually.
Struggles to apologize.
Hatred of the Blessed Virgin Mary.
Watches pornography or things which are similar.
Manipulative.
Has a "replacement" if things go wrong.

You cannot "save her", as only the Lord has the ability to do this. What you may do, however, is plant seeds of conversion, and pray that she may have a change of heart.