"Think not that God created them and gave them to man only to keep house for him, but to comfort and cheer him. That in her the weary and angry husband may find rest, and the children love, and the family pity, and all generally pleasant hospitality." The perfect married woman - Fray Luis of Leon

Daily reminder that family is everything.

“Why do women want to dress like men when they’re fortunate enough to be women? Why lose femininity, which is one of our greatest charms? We get more accomplished by being charming than we would be flaunting around in pants and smoking. I’m very fond of men. I think they are wonderful creatures. I love them dearly. But I don’t want to look like one. When women gave up their long skirts, they made a grave error.”

Some cuddles 🥰

The family tree we all want 🐆🌲

I watched an old Doris Day movie last night called “The thrill of it all” about a housewife who is married to a doctor. She gets recruited to be a television star by a tv exec for a product called “happy soap.” Due to the demand of her new job she begins neglecting her husband and family by default. Even her housekeeper/nanny quits due to neglect and misunderstanding.

(at one point in time it was common for whites to employ full time staff even in lower middle class families; it was extremely difficult to keep a perfectly scrubbed house and still look as if one was an unwrapped pastry for ones husband.)

The movie follows the steady spiral of their family and marriage as the husband tries a dozen different ways to get her to quit and come home, including attempts to get her pregnant again because a female client of his tells him “there’s nothing more fulfilling than having a baby” and he feels he has failed his wife by not giving her enough fulfillment.

Her life and marriage goes from being absolutely perfect to a train wreck. They just keep missing each other with the busy full time schedules and the children start acting out for lack of attention...it’s a mess. Sound familiar? Hollywood has been indoctrinating us against our nature for decades. I know you know this, but the more you watch older movies the more you realize what they’ve taken, what we’ve thrown away.

Ladies, if you are fortunate enough to be able to afford to be a housewife, don’t you dare give that up for anyone. Keep a spotless house and make homemade foods and spend all the time with your children you can. There’s nothing lazy or unfulfilling or wrong about being a housewife. You’re not a “stay at home mom” who sits and drinks wine all day, you’re not to be taken for granted either: you are the most necessary part of a nuclear family. If you’ve been able to preserve that in your wives men, appreciate and cherish it, and know that you’ve got a gift in a world where families are otherwise dismantled and drawn apart.

Coincidentally the number of divorces and unhappy marriages has skyrocketed since women joined the work force en masse. I really recommend this movie, even to normies and feminists. Might shed some light as to why, there’s enough red pills in this one for everyone.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Thrill_of_It_All_(film)